DR. Belisa Vranich:

Count on this: After the formal paperwork has finished ping-ponging between attorneys, people will start throwing advice and analogies at you about getting back "into the game."

Whether it’s a fellow divorcee from www.divorcedating.com or finally accepting that cup of coffee from the cute coworker who’s been flirting with you for months, you will get naked with someone else. It’s inevitable.

Maybe the neglect you’ve suffered at home will have you champing at the bit, eager to tear his/her clothes off at the earliest opportunity. But most probably you are experiencing anxiety over at least one of the following topics:

Q: Am I as good now as I once was?

A: Your memory of yourself when you last found yourself dating a decade or two ago and the person you see staring back at you in the mirror seem like two different people. Toby Keith isn’t the only one with insecurities; you find yourself wondering if you can find your mojo and be as hot and sassy as you were last time around.  Read more.....