More and more people are dating online, according to recent surveys across the country.  Why you may ask? Well, the question is answered by an avid online dater. She can give postive insight as to why you should  try and meet people onlive as opposed to the conventional way of dating. She has been dating online for 5 years and has had a great deal of experience with the online dating world and would like to share her knowledge gained along the way.

"My first response is that you have the ability to meet 1000 times the amount of people you would normally be able to meet on  a one on one date. The opportunities are endless and love has no boundaries so the chances of meeting people in other states is tremendous. Second, after reviewing peoples profiles, you have the ability to pick and choose what type of personality profile meets your approval and peaks your interest. You may be very compatible with someones profile without ever meeting them. That initial bond makes it more likely to acquaint yourself with someone that you already have an affinity for and sparks an interest to get to know the person behind the profile.

If there are pictures posted, you can tell without an embarrassing one on one meeting whether you are interested or not in pursuing an individual. This review process makes it much more comfortable to seek out what you are actually looking  for and what appeals to you.

Your profile should be as detailed as possible to attract all different prospects. Honesty is also a key element. It will allow for a humble and open discussion with another person who may be able to relate to you in some capacity.

Defining your past history as it relates to a divorce can be liberating. When someone can identify with you just upon a past experience albeit painful or not, an immediate, universal tie begins. That is a special thing that happens when two people can understand each other because they have walked in their shoes, shall we say.

All in all, on line dating has introduced me to people from all different parts of the country I never knew even existed. I am finally content and have met my partner on the internet. So, take it from me it works."

Brooke from Califonia